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Breastfeeding Dos and Don’ts for New Mothers

February 7, 2019 | OB/GYN

Breastfeeding is a natural process, but that doesn’t mean it comes to new mothers intuitively or that you won’t need to ask for help. We hope this quick guide will help make things a little easier for you when you begin to breastfeed.


Breastfeeding Dos

1. Get Comfortable

When you breastfeed, you’ll need to stay in one place for a long time, and if you don’t start out in a comfortable position, the process may seem even longer. If you need to use pillows to support yourself, go ahead and do so.


2. Pay Attention to Your Baby’s Feeding Pattern

As your baby feeds, you should notice a rhythmic pattern of sucking and swallowing. If this pattern is not present, your baby may not have latched on properly. If you don’t notice the rhythm, release the suction and start again.

3. Avoid Bottles and Pacifiers

If possible, avoid giving your baby bottles or pacifiers until he or she is at least four weeks old. There’s a difference between the way your baby sucks on a bottle or pacifier and the way your baby sucks on your breast. Babies who receive pacifiers or constantly switch back and forth between the bottle and breast may develop difficulty latching on—a term called “nipple confusion.” Although nipple confusion is often correctable, it is better to avoid it altogether. Bottles and pacifiers can wait until the baby gets a little older.


Breastfeeding Don’ts

Breastfeeding is like any other skill; you probably won’t do it perfectly the first time, but the more you practice, the better you’ll get. Here are some things to try to avoid.

1. Don’t bring the breast to your baby

In other words, don’t lean forward in order to put your breast within the baby’s reach. Holding such an awkward position for an extended period of time will tire you out quickly. Instead, bring your baby to your breast by cradling him or her close to your body.


2. Don’t remove your baby from your breast without first releasing the suction

Do this by taking your finger and inserting it into the corner of the baby’s mouth.


3. Don’t try to make your baby stick to a schedule

Your baby knows better than you do when he or she needs to eat and how much, so follow your baby’s lead. Don’t try to force your baby to nurse at certain times, don’t release your baby from the breast before he or she is finished and if your baby shows no interest in the second breast, don’t force the issue.


Above all else, be patient. Your doctor or a lactation consultant can help you learn how to breastfeed properly, and you and your baby will work as a team to figure it out as you go. Most mothers ultimately find breastfeeding to be well worth the effort.

The obstetricians/gynecologists, nurse practitioners and certified nurse midwives at Revere Health OB/GYN provide a full range of healthcare services to women throughout all stages of their lives, including puberty, child-bearing years, menopause and beyond.



“Breast-feeding tips: What new moms need to know.” Mayo Clinic.

“What is Nipple Confusion and How to Resolve It.” Medela.

The Live Better Team


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